You left your words open to interpretation.
Sirbomber may have some experience behind him to justify his statement.
Also, while it may be put in a manner some perceive as offensive and rude, he does have a point.
Namely, if you want it, make it yourself. Don't sit idly and expect someone else to do it for you (by "someone" read: a random person not you). Of course, this does not mean you won't get help at all.
The second person used is the generic second person.